Say something positive, and you’ll see something positive. – Jim Thompson
We all have dreams, those burning desires that ignite a fire in our bellies. But the road to achieving them can be long and winding. There will be times when doubt creeps in, negativity swirls around us, and we feel like giving up. It’s in these moments that the people we choose to surround ourselves with become incredibly important, they should help you discover the power of positivity.
Imagine this: you’re training for a marathon. Your body is screaming, your lungs are burning, and every fiber of your being is begging you to stop. But then, you see your friend cheering you on from the sidelines, their enthusiasm reigniting your own. That’s the power of positive people.
On the flip side, surrounding yourself with negativity is like training for a marathon with a lead weight tied to your ankle. Those who constantly criticize your dreams, those who don’t believe in you, and those who are quick to give up will only hinder your progress. As the quote says, it’s wise to “cut off or avoid as much as possible people who do not help feed your ambition and drive.” This doesn’t mean being ruthless, but it does mean being discerning about who you invest your emotional energy in.
ACTIVATE THE POWER OF POSITIVITY
here’s the thing: achieving that level of self-sufficiency takes time. We all go through emotional struggles, and sometimes we need a shoulder to cry on. That’s where the importance of family and true friends comes in.
Being honest and open with the people who care about you, even if their dreams for you don’t perfectly align with your own, is a sign of strength, not weakness. A single conversation with a trusted friend can be a game-changer. They can offer a listening ear, a different perspective, or even practical help. True friends are a gift, and pushing them away because you think you have to go it alone only hurts you in the long run.
We all make mistakes. We all do things we’re not proud of. But the quote reminds us: “you can completely overcome any transgression or unethical thing you did in life.” The key is to forgive yourself. Holding onto guilt and shame is a heavy burden to carry. Forgive yourself, learn from your mistakes, and move forward.
Sometimes, life throws us curveballs that leave us bewildered. The quote says, “very bad things happen in our lives that we won’t be able to make sense of until we look back at them a bit older and wiser.” This is true. With time and perspective, we can often find meaning in our struggles.
Here’s your challenge: take a look at the people you surround yourself with. Are they lifting you up or dragging you down? If you find yourself surrounded by negativity, don’t be afraid to make some changes. Seek out positive, supportive people who share your dreams and aspirations.
Remember, you are not alone on this journey. There are people who care about you and want to see you succeed. Embrace their support, share your struggles, and together, you can achieve anything you set your mind to.
Surround yourself with positive influences beyond just people. Read my books, schedule a call, and visit my website. Fill your world with things that will keep you focused on your goals and feeling good about yourself.
